Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity Say only what you mean, Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others you won`t be the victim of needless suffering.
Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want, Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one principle you can completely transform your life.
Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.
Forgiveness and Reconciliation
Jesus clearly warned that God will not forgive our sins if we do not forgive those who sin against us (see: Matthew 6:14-15; Mark 11:25). It’s not that we earn God’s forgiveness by forgiving; instead, God expects forgiven people to forgive (See: Matthew 18:21-35). Yet forgiveness is very different from reconciliation. It’s possible to forgive someone without offering immediate reconciliation. It’s possible for forgiveness to occur in the context of one’s relationship with God apart from contact with the offender. But reconciliation is focused on restoring broken relationships. And where trust is deeply broken, restoration is a process–sometimes, a lengthy one.
Reconciliation Begins with Yourself
Accept full responsibility for your actions and accept you are accountable to others. Do not continue in the hurtful behavior or anything associated with it. And with a sincere, non-defensive attitude of true repentance, make amends for your hurtful behavior.
And forgive yourself, look within yourself to be free from shame, fear, guilt or anger.
True justice is paying only once for each mistake. True injustice is paying more than once for each mistake. The human is the only animal on earth that pays a thousand times for the same mistake. Every time we remember a mistake, we judge ourselves again, we are guilty again, and we punish ourselves again, and again, and again. In the same way we make others pay, especially our love ones, we punish them for the same old mistakes again and again and again.
Do not reject yourself. Self-rejection is the biggest sin that you can commit. Self-rejection is the biggest hurtful behavior and can lead to further hurtful actions.
Learn to love yourself. We have the need to be accepted and loved by others, but we cannot accept and love ourselves. The more self-love we have, the less we will experience self-abuse and self-rejection.
Transform Your Life
Transform your life with these guiding principles.
- Be impeccable with your word.
- Don't take anything personally.
- Don't make assumptions.
- Always do your best.
Sincerely ask forgiveness from those hurt with your words, actions and behavior.
Reconcile.
Restore your broken relationship and build trust anew.
Focus Your New Life to Truth and Love!
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